Dear Elena! Everyone loved
your show at our Golden
Door. The narration, costumes
and dancing were all
top-notch. Cindi Peterson
In the 19 century Tango was born in the slums and brothels. It was born as a result of lonely immigrants; men were trying to find some
comfort in the company of a woman. It was a way of escaping the loneliness. It was an illusion of love for a moment. It was a way of
walk with a woman and music.
At the beginning, from immigrant’s hearts some deep nostalgic melancholy came to tango music. There
were some songs with very melodramatic words. It could be about a lover who has left, some unhappy situations, or life without meaning
or joy.
Some lonely people and some dysfunctional couples still come to dance tango in their own time to get some illusion of love, in order
to feel at least for a moment something special that they don't have in their real lives. This is another side of Tango that keeps some people
at Milonga.  An old story of those who tried to buy any kind of illusions... Tango was a way of being drunk or drugged by its mysterious
charm, and in a way to forget for a moment the reality. It is a sad, hidden truth about what people share and have in common when they
dance it. Also, people were fighting with each other because of it...It still stays this way for some of them. However, it could be a way of a
therapy, a better way of thinking. It could be a way of releasing some negative energy and creating a new fresh stream to live with. Tango
movements have special energy in every one of them. This energy varies from step to step. Such energy depends on the music and on the
personality of the dancer, the designer of that dance.
If a man grew up in a very controlling or manipulative childhood, he acquired too much feminine energy. His tango is weak. He does not
have any energy not know when and how to do that.  His authentic initiative was suppressed in his childhood.  Then, the women's
independence movement of the 1960's helped to kill that energy and initiatives of men, as well.
Some women on the dance floor take a man's space and energy, and paralyze his will to create anything.  She takes his desire to create,
freedom to dance or improvise. Women and men need to LEARN how to balance their "lack of" or "too much" male energy. Then their
tango will improve. Also, it will help them to live a more harmonious and happy life.
Ladies!  Let men lead you.  Don't talk to him while learning the dance, don't try to "help" or teach him. Let them just BE with you there for
a moment. You should not assume that you "know," and don't anticipate the steps. One day you might dance with a very advanced leader,
and then you could be very surprised how little you might know.
The bigger circle of your knowledge, then your circle of unknown around you is even bigger. With your deep learning you will understand
that you know nothing. Even after 2000 years some hidden truth could be discovered...
Tango brings people together, but it could separate them. It has some mystery and magic in it. Every night women and men are gathering
at Milongas to talk, to meet someone, to smile and maybe feel happier. Their eyes are sad or shine, their hearts are hurt or inspired, and
their minds need some challenge important that dancing keeps them feel good, they can forget every day problems, and just relax by
dancing. Others come with the hope to escape the loneliness, meet somebody at least for a moment…
Under the general name Authentic Energy and Connections we are teaching Tango as a Relationship Therapist.  Some of it this philosophy
people would learn at our group lessons, and mostly it will come to you in our private lessons. The self-healing and fitness benefits of our
dance lessons you can clearly recognize when you will put your conscious into it. Then, you can purposefully and with intent, physically
improve your body condition and your life. If you are curious to read more about our unique discoveries, please read
Tango-Chi and come
to our private lessons to learn it deeper.
People who got taste of Tango will never stop dancing this beautiful dance. Others found in Tango community their friends and only
family. Thank you for some who World of Tango so beautiful.
Tango has many attractive parts (creativity, beautiful steps, music, and
exercise of the mind) which hook people onto it. With this in mind, we could look and understand what else inside tango embrace, what
kind of psychology was running tango into the life.  
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